Muttaqun Crewz™

When it comes to a successful debate it is best to remember that nothing is really as it appears. People may at first glance believe that the object is to win. They may believe that in order to do so you have to out prepare and out answer your opponent. The truth is, it is incredibly
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difficult to win. This stands true for either side. No matter how you choose to phrase your argument, even people who will be supportive of your position may not agree with your particular argument. People are fickle that way. It is near impossible to get into other people's head. It is even harder to speak for others effectively.What should be realized is that by focusing on some simple technique, you can sway the minds of others and present yourself in a way that is inviting. During debate it is the one who is memorable and believable that will win the day. Here are a few things to keep in mind.Promote dialogue. This is more important than coming out ahead in points. Ideally there is no arbiter of truth in any debate. It is about being most effectual to your audience. Keeping in mind that you want to win over those who are listening to you not specifically the point in question. It is being able to promote thinking amongst your audience and opening up their minds to new perspectives that will take you steps ahead of your competition.Keep it personable. This is another point where it is critical to have a good understanding of your audience. If your opponent has charted out a careful plan of attack with careful points and counterpoints in a desperate attempt to win over support for his position, he may present a decent technical argument but he stands to lose his audience for that very reason. Keep it simple. By relating to personal experience and using simple language and examples that your audience can relate to, you stand a much better chance of leaving the type of impression that will win you more than the moment, it will win you the day.